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Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

N Apostrophe T (N’T) — What Does That Mean? (Video)
N Apostrophe T (N’T) — What Does That Mean? (Video)

N Apostrophe T (N’T) — What Does That Mean? (Video)

Can't, Won't, Don't, Couldn't, Shouldn't, Wouldn't. What do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-08-10T09:43:34-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, General, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Communication, Compromise, Divorce, Mediation, Negotiation, Possibilities, Separation|0 Comments

Is Good Enough, Good Enough? (Video)
Is Good Enough, Good Enough? (Video)

Is Good Enough, Good Enough? (Video)

If you are trying to create the perfect [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-07-13T11:50:04-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Being Perfect, Divorce, Divorce Decisions, Good Enough, Mediation, Perfection, Separation|0 Comments

Mediation Myth-Busting — Children (VIDEO)
Mediation Myth-Busting — Children (VIDEO)

Mediation Myth-Busting — Children (VIDEO)

In my last video, I busted 3 common myths [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-06-28T07:11:41-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Videos|Tags: Child Custody, Child Support, Children of Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Myths, Mediation, Parental Income Levels, Parenting Arrangements, Parenting Plans, Separation|0 Comments

Mediation Myth Busting (VIDEO)
Mediation Myth Busting (VIDEO)

Mediation Myth Busting (VIDEO)

A myth is a widely held but false [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-06-02T14:11:29-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Lawyer, Mediation, Mediation Myths, Mediator, Misconceptions, Myths, Preparation, Separation|0 Comments

To Bear but not Necessarily Share Another’s Beliefs and Practices (VIDEO)
To Bear but not Necessarily Share Another’s Beliefs and Practices (VIDEO)

To Bear but not Necessarily Share Another’s Beliefs and Practices (VIDEO)

An acquaintance was describing a situation that he [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-05-18T11:53:03-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, General, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Conflict, Divorce, Intolerance, Mediation, Self Awareness, Separation, Tolerance|0 Comments

Does it Make Sense to have a Joint Bank Account after Divorce? (VIDEO)
Does it Make Sense to have a Joint Bank Account after Divorce? (VIDEO)

Does it Make Sense to have a Joint Bank Account after Divorce? (VIDEO)

One of the first things divorcing couples are advised [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-05-18T07:21:05-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Finances & Divorce, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Add-On Expenses, Child Support, Children, Divorce, Finances, Financial Reconciliation, Joint Bank Account, Mediation, Separation, Sharing Add-On Expenses|0 Comments

Is there a “Standard” Parenting Plan?
Is there a “Standard” Parenting Plan?

Is there a “Standard” Parenting Plan?

N0! There is no such thing as a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-04-20T12:35:01-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Children, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Family Court, Mediation, Parenting Plan, Separation|0 Comments

The Healing Magic of Mediation (VIDEO)
The Healing Magic of Mediation (VIDEO)

The Healing Magic of Mediation (VIDEO)

In this video, I’m piggybacking on fellow mediator [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-04-06T13:11:27-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Attitude, Beliefs, Communication, Divorce, Grace, Healing, Ideas, Mediation, Responsibility, Separation|0 Comments

Mediators Sweep and Wax to Help Couples Achieve a Friction-Free Divorce
Mediators Sweep and Wax to Help Couples Achieve a Friction-Free Divorce

Mediators Sweep and Wax to Help Couples Achieve a Friction-Free Divorce

The 2022 Winter Olympics are up and running, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-03-16T14:24:42-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Mediation, Olympics, Separation, Winter Olympics, Winter Olympics 2022|0 Comments

A Gray Divorce is Your Decision and Nobody Should Judge It [VIDEO]
A Gray Divorce is Your Decision and Nobody Should Judge It [VIDEO]

A Gray Divorce is Your Decision and Nobody Should Judge It [VIDEO]

When a couple has been married for many, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2022-03-02T14:01:02-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, General, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Baby Boomers, Divorce, Empty Nest, Gray Divorce, Mediation, Melissa Fecak, Negative Judgment, Separation|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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