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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

When Worlds Collide
When Worlds Collide

When Worlds Collide

{4 minutes to read} This past November, I lost [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-01-23T14:13:44-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Co-Parenting, Death and Loss, Post-Divorce Mediation|0 Comments

The Marriage Autopsy
The Marriage Autopsy

The Marriage Autopsy

{3 minutes to read} Perhaps this seems like a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-01-09T23:02:18-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce, Infidelity, Marriage Autopsy, Self Reflection, Separation|0 Comments

My Thanks GIVING to My Clients
My Thanks GIVING to My Clients

My Thanks GIVING to My Clients

{4:30 minutes to read} In the spirit of the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-11-14T12:23:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Gratefulness, Mediation, Mediation Process, Thanksgiving|0 Comments

Good Luck and Smooth Sailing
Good Luck and Smooth Sailing

Good Luck and Smooth Sailing

{3:24 to read} For those of you who have [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-10-24T12:11:00-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Action in the North Atlantic, Divorce, Mediation|1 Comment

Home-Moaning
Home-Moaning

Home-Moaning

{4 minutes to read} In a separation and divorce, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-10-10T13:13:38-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, House & Property|Tags: Asset Allocation, Dividing the House, Settlement Agreement|1 Comment

Please Don’t Wait Until The Last Minute
Please Don’t Wait Until The Last Minute

Please Don’t Wait Until The Last Minute

Maintenance/Taxability and You December 31 calendar. Isolated White Background. [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-01-24T13:57:16-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: 2018 Tax Cuts and Job Act (TCJA), Settlement Agreement, Spousal Maintenance|0 Comments

But We Already Agreed to Everything!
But We Already Agreed to Everything!

But We Already Agreed to Everything!

{3:30 minutes to read} How many times during a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-09-05T14:14:32-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Co-Parenting, Cooperation, Divorce Negotiation, Mediation Process, Parenting Plans, Settlement Agreement|0 Comments

The Parents Eat Bitter Grapes and the Children’s Teeth Are Set On Edge
The Parents Eat Bitter Grapes and the Children’s Teeth Are Set On Edge

The Parents Eat Bitter Grapes and the Children’s Teeth Are Set On Edge

The parents eat bitter grapes and the children’s teeth are [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-01-23T14:38:55-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Co-Parenting, Post-Divorce Parenting|0 Comments

Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??
Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??

Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??

{3:36 minutes to read} This month, I am hosting an [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T20:03:47-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Mediation Process, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Financial Professional, Financial Confidence, Post Divorce Financial Life, Tommie Michalik|0 Comments

I Have a Feeling
I Have a Feeling

I Have a Feeling

{4 minutes to read} Spring in the Northeast brought [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-06-26T09:50:03-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective|Tags: Co-Parenting, Divorce Agreement, Mediation, Negotiation, Optimism, Post-Divorce Parenting|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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