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You Are Not Alone
You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Feelings of Loneliness in Divorce, Foreclosure, Normalcy in Divorce, Shame in Divorce|5 Comments

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

Your Children Will Thank You
Your Children Will Thank You

Your Children Will Thank You

How many times has this happened to you? Suddenly you [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Amicable Divorce, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Life's Struggles, Mediation, Partnership Post-Divorce|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Two|Tags: "Life is a Negotiation", Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

Separation Partners
Separation Partners

Separation Partners

I know this title may seem like an oxymoron of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Marriage as Friendship, Marriage as Partnership, Mediation, Parenting Plans|0 Comments

Buddies or Partners – An Anatomy of a Marriage
Buddies or Partners – An Anatomy of a Marriage

Buddies or Partners – An Anatomy of a Marriage

In the almost ten years that I have been mediating [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Do You Like Your Partner?, Marriage, Marriage as Partnership, Obstacles in Marriage, Success in Marriage, Through Richer or Poorer, Through Sickness and Health|1 Comment

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 3
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 3

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 3

Over the past few months as my articles have been [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Dating, Do You Like Your Partner?, Issues to Explore Before Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Mediation, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then Comes Baby in the Baby Carriage
First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then Comes Baby in the Baby Carriage

First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then Comes Baby in the Baby Carriage

This was one of the verses we used to sing [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Two|Tags: Preconceptions of Family, Pregnant Out of Wedlock, Sexual Revolution, Single Mother, Unmarried and Pregnant, Waiting for Mr. Right|2 Comments

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2

Part 1 of this series talked about the Pre-Cana classes [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Mediation, Pre-Cana|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.